More Ways to Know if he's Cheating

This is a continuation of the first article: How do you know if he's cheating?

A word of advice: Proceed with Caution. Not all of these signs mean your man is cheating. So, before you snoop, accuse or freak out, find more information then go for the kill (that doesn't sound right) I mean confrontation.

Your man MAY BE cheating if: (source?: a lot of women I know and good 'ol common sense)

1] When they will not allow you access to their computer or they suddenly shut down the computer when you walk into the room. They may password protect their laptop or computer to keep out suspicious eyes. Or they stay up to "work" on the computer after you go to bed. Excessive internet usage, especially late at night, is a red flag.

2]When they begin to put distance between you or show a lack of interest in what has been the routine with few, if any, excuses.

3]When they suddenly have to work late and have all kinds of new obligations that take them away from home repeatedly or for long periods of time. Or. . . they tell you they are working longer hours and discontinue allowing you to view their paycheck or pay stubs.

When they arrive home and head straight into the shower or bath. I mean not just once but every time and he doesn't do this before.

4]When they have lipstick or strange hairs on their clothing or in the car. Finding strange phone numbers, receipts or condoms can also be clues. But they are very tricky now so I don't expect this to happen often (read: leaving evidence) unless he's challenged up there *wink*

5]When they talk to you they treat you abusively or with disdain, disrespect or excess sarcasm. They may also demonstrate an unexplained aloofness or indifference in the relationship. Or. . . they may begin to find fault in everything you do in an attempt to justify the affair.

6]When they break their established routine at work and home for no apparent or logical reason.

7]When they are always tired or demonstrate a noticeable lack of energy or interest in the relationship. This doesn't mean cheating right away, there could be other reasons why he's not interested.

8]When you notice that they reluctant to kiss you or accept your affection. see above for possible other reasons.

9]When the passenger seat in the car has been changed and is not in the usual position or the mileage on the car is more than usual. Also increased gas purchases that are inconsistent with the amount of miles on the car. Now this takes a keen eye.

10]When you notice credit card charges for gifts (such as florist or jewelry) that you didn't receive. When you notice an increase in ATM withdrawals. Cheating costs money! To play you must pay!

11] When they begin to make "kinky" requests or suggest wildly erotic play during sex including things you have never done before. They may also show an increased interest in sex or sexual things, including porn.

12] When they no longer want sex with you.

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