How do you know if he’s Cheating?
If a man cheats, eventually he gets caught. Men get tired of hiding it and little mistakes will happen. The obvious will become clear. In the meantime, do not let your imagination run wild. Can he be trusted? Are their obvious signs? Here are different views from real women with relationship issues (real names withheld).
“If your man usually tells you everything, and then he meets a new female friend that he thinks treats him so sweet, then you don't hear anymore about her for awhile. Then you find out she's calling him late at night or on weekends...something is going on. Especially if he calls her or texts her only when he is going to orfrom work or out of town or other times you know you were not around” ---Mary---
“Look at his cell phone bill when he's not around. Look for a recurring number or numbers that are not familiar to you. Call those numbers. Make up a really good excuse on why you called. Remember in today's world of mobile phones, it's not uncommon for one person to have phone numbers in different area codes or even states. Ask about the unfamiliar numbers and if he becomes defensive or raises his voice, something's is amiss. Also, does he have another cell phone? A work cell? A car phone? Check those records for the same unfamiliar numbers.”
“Think of his normal behavior, do you always get a lot of strange phone calls, i.e., hang ups? Any behavior not in the norm would be a red flag. Also, is he suddenly MORE attentive than usual? If he's inviting you to things the last few months he hasn't in the past, that's a very real give-away because he's over-compensating for a wrong marriage.”
“All this may seem like you're going too far, but if you suspect cheating, you're not and it's your right.” --- Alice---
“There will be signs such as: - he acts differently - does not tell you he loves you anymore - does not kiss or hug you goodbye - he does kiss it is on the forehead & the hug is barely there - has a hard time looking at you or talking to you - comes home a lot later than he usually did & has no explanation it makes no sense like suddenly hanging out with someone he never even got along with before - the sex has dramatically changed, less or none at all , more and no emotion involved.”
“There are many ways to tell, check his cell phone, email, voicemail, phone, vehicle, wallet and clothes. Smell his underwear for the smell of another woman or sex -also he will be more animate about his appearance, showering more, different clothes, different hair, and cleaner appearance. Also is he not calling you from work like he used to. –-Suzanne--
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From a man's point of view: Something to look for to determine whether your man is cheating: Has something happened in your relationship that has hurt the relationship?
I will concede that sometimes a man doesn't need an excuse to cheat. Ok. But sometimes a man wouldn't even begin to think of cheating if the relationship is going well. When something bad happens (just one example: money problems), a man might want to get revenge by cheating. So add to the list of things to suspect: are things going well in the relationship vs are there problems?
Very good point new york dude! thanks for dropping by.
also try checking the history on your computer to see what sights he has been looking at. he might be meeting women online, or looking at porn.....it happened to me
my hubby has none of them but there is a myspace that has popped up on HIS computer that i dont know. I got a friend to hack it and it has stuff that him and his ex girlfriends know about and he tells me he didnt do it.
I dont know what to think my gut feeling is telling me he did but my heart is telling me no. i dont know what to think. please someone help me. we've always had problems because of his ex wife but he tells me stuff like "ill keep you around because you do this" or "Ive got you the way i want"
sometimes he treats me like a kid.
please please please help me, we havent even been married a year yet.
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